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From Broken to Brave

Profound life & business lessons learned on my journey through pain, loss and abuse to successful entrepreneur

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About “From Broken to Brave”

From Broken to Brave is the story of the many turning points in my life, both good and bad; and the valuable lessons I learned from each one.  My life has not been particularly extraordinary, and at the tender age of 42, I can appreciate that it’s not been that long either.  I’m also acutely aware that there are people in this world who have had a far worse time in life than I have, but I have had more than my fair share of tough times and bad experiences. 

From the pain of a close friend’s suicide, the loss of identity and the humiliation of mental and physical abuse; to the courage to start a new life, the fear of repeating past mistakes, and the tribulations of starting a new business.

But this book is not a “woe is me” story. With the benefit of hindsight, I’ve been able to glean the powerful and profound lessons that these and many other experiences have taught me about life, as well as running a business. I want to share some of these experiences in the hope that the lessons I have learned will somehow help you.

My wish is that you may find answers to some of the questions that you are facing in your own life. Or perhaps you will find the strength and resolve to cope with similar situations that I have overcome.  Maybe you will simply find solace in knowing that you’re not alone; that someone has walked in your shoes before you and not only survived but thrived.

I have written this book as a beacon of hope to show that no obstacle is permanent, no heartbreak unrecoverable, and nothing is ever broken forever.

A powerful look at the ups and downs of a traumatic life and the lessons learned from each experience. Highly recommended for anyone who has suffered abuse, trauma, adiction, or loss who do not want their life to be dictated by their past mistakes. 

What’s inside

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Chapter 1

Gravy fries are not the answer

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Chapter 2

Shock tactics

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Chapter 3

Clash of the egos

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Chapter 4

Hindsight hurts

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Chapter 5

Things unsaid

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Chapter 6

“I don’t know my own strength”

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Chapter 7

Rose-tinted glasses won’t change the world

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Chapter 8

Bridges

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Chapter 9

Living with a stranger

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Chapter 10

Armcos & arm-twisting

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Chapter 11

“Do you have a minute?”

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Chapter 12

The international incident

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Chapter 13

A knife in the back

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Chapter 14

Concrete walls

Introduction

It’s no secret to anyone who knows me that I am a profoundly private person. I don’t believe in airing my personal life for the world to see. It’s the reason why I’m not very active on social media outside of my business, and why I’m rarely the life and soul of the party (unless I have to be).

I guess that is common for a lot of people; however, I can sometimes take that to extremes. There are of course a few people close to me that know certain things about my past and my life, but no one – not even my parents or my husband – know the full story. Not one person other than myself is aware of all the pieces and how they have fitted together over the years to make me the person I am today.

Looking back on my life I don’t really know if that was ever an intentional choice or if that’s just the way I developed. Whether it was a defence mechanism or just an in-built personality trait; like how some people are naturally outgoing or charismatic. But things started to change in my mind regarding that point not all that long ago.

Whilst writing my first book, Stress-Free Self-Publishing, which was published in May 2019, a couple of my beta readers, as well as a good friend who is a book writing mentor, pointed out that there was nothing about me in the book apart from the very sparse author bio I had reluctantly added to the back matter. Even that I had just taken from my website and padded out slightly. When I asked why that mattered when the book was meant as a how-to guide, everyone’s response was similar… it helps readers to get to know more about you and connect with you as a real person. The more human you appear as an author, the more they will engage with the content of your book.

Being the rather stubborn and headstrong person that I am, I didn’t relent very much in regards to adding anything personal to Stress-Free Self-Publishing. However, it did plant the seed of starting to see how other people might find value in my experiences… if I would just be willing to open up and share them. The more I thought about the idea, the more it grew on me. I had always wanted to help people in any way I could, and here was a way that I could help others that I had never considered before – by sharing some of my experiences in the hope that someone else could learn from my mistakes.

I decided to put this theory to the test by presenting a 4Sight to one of my local 4Networking groups. 4Sights are an opportunity to give a brief presentation on any chosen topic (as long as it’s not a sales pitch) at my business networking group of choice, 4Networking. The 20-minute talk touched on a few memories and lessons that eventually formed Chapters 4, 9 and 10 of this book.

It was the most difficult talk I have ever given! This was the first time I had spoken about these experiences out loud, and I was doing it to a roomful of fellow business owners who I only saw maybe once a month, if ever. I had one or two friends in the room who I had asked to come along for support, but for the most part I barely knew anyone in the audience of 20 all that well.

As I started to speak, I kept thinking to myself: “How are these people going to react? What will they think of me after this? Will they think less of me? Am I going to ruin the professional reputation that I have worked to build with these people?” Despite my thoughts running a mile a minute and my emotions in turmoil over digging up past memories, I made it to the end of the talk. There was a stunned silence followed by genuine, heartfelt applause; and I had to choke back tears of relief.

I went on to explain that what I had just shared was going to form part of a new book that I was writing, intended to help people cope with similar experiences, and asked if they found any value in what I had just shared. The answer was a resounding yes. So not five days after Stress-Free Self-Publishing hit the shelves, I started writing the initial manuscript for From Broken to Brave.

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Despite this rather secretive preamble, my life has not been particularly extraordinary. At the tender age of 42, I can appreciate that it’s not been that long either. I’m also acutely aware that there are people in this world who have had a far worse time in life than I have, but I have had more than my fair share of tough times and bad experiences. My family moved around a lot when I was a kid which meant that I found it very difficult to make new friends (despite the practice) and as a result I was bullied mercilessly all the way through school. As you will soon read, particular circumstances led me to become addicted to drugs and on the edge of suicide. I have been completely broke, relying on food banks and begging for my next meal.

But this book is not a “woe is me” story. No. With the benefit of hindsight, I’ve been able to glean the powerful and profound lessons that these and many other experiences have taught me about life as well as running a business. Some have been more obvious than others; some have taken me decades to learn and even longer to live by. But they are the lessons that have shaped who I am and the way I view the world.

I want to share some of these experiences with you in the hope that the lessons I have learned will somehow help you. My wish is that, by drawing back the curtain on my life and sharing some of my story, you may find answers to questions that you are facing in your own life. Or perhaps you will find the strength and resolve to cope with similar situations that I have overcome. Maybe you will simply find solace in knowing that you’re not alone; that someone has walked in your shoes before you and not only survived but thrived.

Though many of the experiences and stories that I am about to share with you are very dark, I have written this book as a beacon of hope to show that no obstacle is permanent, no heartbreak unrecoverable, and nothing is ever broken forever. In these pages you will learn of some of the pain, loss, fear, setbacks, and what at the time felt like insurmountable odds, that I have faced to get to where I am right now; but also come to know that despite all that has happened in my life (or maybe because of it) I am the woman I am today. Confident, strong and successful, whilst also remaining caring, gentle and committed to helping better both myself and the world around me.

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I have written this book as a beacon of hope to show that no obstacle is permanent, no heartbreak unrecoverable, and nothing is ever broken forever.

– Sam Pearce, author

An extraordinary read. Sam's journey is emotional and inspiring.

Emma

This was a very interesting and emotional read for me. The author has filled the pages with life lessons, inspiring stories, brutal honesty and sometimes shoking passages!

Laura

This was an amazing book! I loved every page and getting to know the author's story.

Rhianydd

Sam's book is a courageous reflection of her life's journey, many of which were emotionally traumatic which could have taken her into a downward spiral.

Jeanine

A great lesson here in how to deal with what life throws at us. Highly recommended.

Mary

About the author

The author of From Broken to Brave, Sam Pearce

Originally born in the UK, Sam Pearce grew up in Toronto Canada where she developed a fascination with art and design by leafing through the album covers of her father’s vinyl collection. Despite other passions for music, flying and animals coming and going, the love of design has never gone away.

A fortuitous chain of events saw Sam starting to apply her passion for typography and layout to the art of books in 2012. Several years later another seemingly random event introduced her to the world of self-publishing and the rest, as they say, is history.

Since then, Sam has been involved in the design and publication of over 90 books encompassing a wide range of genres, from business guides and self-help books to children’s stories and fantasy fiction. Many books Sam has been involved in have gone onto be nominated and win prestigious awards in their categories as well as topping Amazon bestseller lists.

Sam Pearce